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Chocolate Man Toy
Age 65 From Denver, Colorado - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As  
This is truly my philosophy of love!!

I believe, ideal love is really only obtained between two sincere, mature and independent people. It is our inner struggle to perfect these attributes that is the key. Real love is not two people clinging to each other; it can only be between two strong people secure in their individuality!

True love should not change who we are. It is a process that expands on our ability to cherish, not just one love, but all people. It can make us stronger, lifts us higher and it will deepen us as individuals. Yet, in the end, we can only partner with somebody who somehow "fits us". The same is true of friendship. Only to the extent that we enhance our lives, can we hope to develop wonderful bonds of the heart in the future.

We can lose ourselves in romantic attachment, but the truth is, the euphoria is unlikely to last for long. Indeed, the likelihood of undergoing suffering and sadness only grows over time. As long as we remain unable to redress our own weaknesses, we will be miserable no matter where or to whom we commit to. We can never become truly happy unless we ourselves undergo a personal transformation, one that we are comfortable with.

At times daily life can seem all too drab and unexciting. Living itself can sometimes seem a strain, and few of us realistically expect what joy we feel, to last forever. However, when you fall in LOVE, life seems filled with excitement. We feel like the leading character in a novel. But, if you get lost in love just because you are bored, and consequently veer from the path you should be following, then love is nothing more than escapism. What you are doing is retreating into a dream world, believing in an illusion. Unfortunately, you realize it wasn't at all what you thought it would be.
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Athletic
My Height Is  
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are  
Black
My Ethnicity Is  
African American
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Arms
Body Art  
Other
My Hair Is  
Bald
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Self-employed
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is  
Green Build Consultant
I Make This Much In A Year  
Under $100,000USD/yr
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Jock
My Social Behavior Is  
Boisterous, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cars, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Trying New Things, Relaxing, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
On the beach in Cobo having dinner.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Ski diving
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is  
My goal is to build a Green Build Construction company.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Friendly, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Romance, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read  
News, Business, Fiction, Sports, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Being with a woman of substance

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Good Looks, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Date, Intimate, Committed
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